“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.” ― Steve Maraboli

Well, maybe you guys start getting bored because I do blog so often recently. Sorry, sorry. I'm bad in remembering, so if I have any idea or topic or story or whatsoever with the name, I have to write it soon before I forget all those things.

You know what date it is, right? Yes! 2nd April, means that I just missed to post about monthly chart I had ever promised to be posted each month. Sorry (again)! I had explained about ESA's Fair kan? Alright, this post will be about that chart, AND other thing, which I think so interesting, to be discussed. *big laugh*

Let's start with this motion: Man thinks too much while woman really hates waiting.

I had kinda small discussion with some of my friends about this, well not specifically about this actually, but yeah we talked about you know relation between man and woman. Okay let's make it sounds lighter by using boy and girl, deal?

Boys think that girls are the most in-understandable thing in this whole world and vice versa.

The first sub-topic is that How can girls measure boys' seriousness?

One of my friends joined in our small discussion said that even themselves can't do that. They, well maybe, sometimes don't know how serious they are. That's becoming the problem I suppose. Let's take an example. Case: When a boy complements a girl by telling her that she is beautiful. Then the girl will response by giving kinda denial in front of the boy, but actually she has a great feeling inside.

My friend asked me, "Why are girls sometimes so hypocritical? Why do they keep denying or refusing our complements while actually they are happy inside, like say yes!"

I said, "Simply because we, girls, don't know whether or not you guys are serious with what you said."

He said, "Well yeah, I know maybe sometimes they are, but at least say thanks, appreciate them."

It may be stupid, I know. It's like you got a lie then you give a lie for the response as well. People!

I tell you boys, that any smart girl loves when you say everything honestly. But note this: It doesn't mean that you can say something RUDE and HARSH, they say "at least" show your politeness. Okay I know that some of girls can not tolerate/receive if you said that their hair is so messy or they are well-covered, but since it comes from my point of view I'll be okay. What I mean okay here is that I'll keep silent and give no response instead of yelling in front of you that those opinions are wrong.

I have another case. Girls hate bullshit plans, you know like when boys said "Let's hang out one day, or let's have a dinner, or let's watch movie together." In fact, those bunch of rubbish never been done. Cohmon! I bet most of girls prefer to find you in front of their house, coming and asking politely to her parents to ask you to take a walk. What they need is action not plan. That's it. Oh, great thing to do is simply like when the girl you like or even love is angry or in a swing mood, ask her to have a meet. No need to go to exclusive restaurant or superb Mall, come to her house, bring a 5k ice cream, ask her to share anything. Simple, meaningful, memorable.

Boys will be boys, yes?

The second is gonna be like this: They are targeting someone and playing around with others at the same time.

Case: There's a boy who obviously flatters a girl, many people recognize that the boy may have a certain intention towards the girl, but what he has done so far is equal to what he has done to any other girl. Cool? No! Suck? Definitely!

Why don't they pick one, and make it serious. Triple why? No one wants to be played around, right? You boys must think the same, then why don't you do the same? I do pretty know that I seem so subjective of writing this post. I know, you can judge me so. Anyhow that's the main purpose, I tell what's on my mind then next you can debate me by giving your perspectives :p

Be serious, and show your seriousness. You don't have to be so that strict but at least respect them. Because if you guys keep playing around, even before you become a couple, then who can guarantee that you will stop after all? No one.

Woman are full of worried.

Third: They love to predicting, guessing, assuming, anything you name it!

We are not mind readers, boys. Maybe few number of us, but not all of us. So, be clear. If you like a girl show them that you do, if you don't then don't treat them too much. You guys must have known the boundaries between what you call as friends and friend-whom-you-want-to-be-your-girlfriend. Don't give any biased answer, treatment, 'cause it can lead to misinterpretation and ambiguity. A friend of mine (male) said that if a boy treats a girl kindly is simply because he is truly kind. He said that girl loves to expect too much, that's why they easily get disappointed when their expectation gives nothing real. I neither agree or disagree with that statement. Maybe that's true, but maybe not.
Case: A man loves to ask a girl for hanging out, asking for watching movie, or having meal together. My question will come to this: Do they do those kind of things to all girls? Do they always do that to their friends, I mean literally friends? How can girls know their intention, whether they just asking to go out as friends or as a prospective girlfriend?
The confusion of this will create bunch of statements started with "Jangan-jangan.....". Jangan-jangan dia naksir saya, jangan-jangan dia bermaksud mendekati saya, jangan-jangan dia mau menyatakan perasaan, and so on and so far.
In conclusion, show your boundaries! For each goodness.

I still got some points to discuss. Hoho, but I think it's already too long. So, let me continue this topic later ya :) when I get my maximum good mood. (I have been busy fixing something which is actually abstract, it's even harder than doing homework.)

Well, last but not least, as I have promised you century ago. Here are my most played songs in, if I'm not mistaken, the last 2 months.
1. Embrace - Celebrate
2. Float - Pulang
3. Five For Fighting - Heaven Knows
4.The Trees and The Wild - Fight The Future
5. Tulus - Setahun Lalu
6. Tulus - Kisah Sebentar
7. Payung Teduh - Puan Bermain Hujan
8. Yuna - Penakut
9. Hunter Hayes - Invisible
10.  John Mayer - Say What You Need to Say

For telling the truth I listen to Tulus so often since he just released his newest album Gajah. I love it like hell, all those songs are just superb. Go get the songs, everybody!
Oya anyway, I plan to attend a gig held by SMAN 8 Jogja insyaAllah. On 24th May, GOR UNY, with SheilaOn7, Payung Teduh and FSTVLST as the main guest stars. Hopefully can go there!
Ciao!

Kisses and Hugs - Anggra